Sharon SalzbergFeelings of apathy as they relate to our relationships often stem from insufficiently paying attention to those around us.
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The idea that too much time is spent alone can produce feelings of apathy in relationships, and this sentiment can take a toll on romantic relationships. In a study published in the journal Psychology of Aesthetics, Creativity, and the Arts, researchers found that when people spend less time with their romantic partners, they have less positive feelings toward them. This is because spending time alone generates negative thoughts about a person's personal traits and behaviors, which then reduces a person's self-esteem and feelings of well-being.
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